grooming · 2026-09-08

Look Experienced in Your Headshot, Even if Your Resume is Short

Your first headshot shouldn't scream 'new grad.' Learn three style tweaks and one expression trick that project calm competence. Use your Portraze session to look ready for the role you want.

The 'Young' Giveaway: Your Current Photo's Problem

Your photo screams "new grad" because it's a cropped party picture. I see it every week. The background is a blur of dorm string lights or a beer pong table corner. The smile is genuine, but it's the smile you give a friend, not a hiring manager. That crop job, where you've just chopped someone's arm off your shoulder, leaves a weird tension in the frame. Your face is lit by a harsh phone flash, creating sharp shadows under your chin that make you look tired, not trustworthy. It tells me you needed a photo in ten seconds for a LinkedIn profile you were forced to make. It costs you credibility before you even speak.

Dress for the Job Two Levels Up, Not Your Internship

Think of the person who holds the position you want in five years. What's in their closet? Wear that. If you're in business, this means a blazer in a solid, dark color—navy or charcoal, not beige. A beige blazer often looks like a rental. Your shirt should be a crisp, light color: white, light blue, pale pink. Avoid loud patterns; a small, tight check is okay, but a giant floral print pulls all the attention. For creative fields, the rule is "elevated basics." A high-quality, plain black t-shirt under a well-structured leather jacket reads as intentional. A graphic tee for your favorite band does not. The fabric is key. Wrinkled cotton reads "college laundry day." A wool blend or thick knit reads "I own an iron and I'm not afraid to use it."

Here’s a quick checklist for your outfit:

Your Expression is 80% of the Battle: Find Neutral-Confident

The biggest mistake is the "please hire me" smile. It's wide, toothy, and reaches your eyes with a plea. The second biggest mistake is the stern, blank stare, which reads as hostile. You need the middle ground: neutral-confident. Practice this in a mirror. Think of a small, quiet accomplishment you're proud of—finishing a tough project, fixing something yourself. Hold that feeling in your chest. Let a very slight smile form, mostly with your eyes. Your lips should be relaxed, maybe parted a millimeter. This isn't a grin; it's a settled, capable look. Your eyes should feel engaged, like you're listening intently to a good question. I tell clients to imagine they just heard someone say, "That's a great idea." That's the micro-expression we're after.

Avoid the Top Pose Mistake: Leaning Forward Too Much

Nerves make us hunch. You sit down and instinctively lean toward the camera, shoulders up by your ears, chin jutting out. This is the "eager intern" pose. It makes you look smaller and tense. Instead, do this: plant your feet flat. Sit back fully into the chair so your spine is against its support. Roll your shoulders back twice, then let them drop. Imagine a string pulling the crown of your head gently toward the ceiling. Now, tilt your chin down slightly—just a two-degree nod. This prevents a double chin and creates a strong, attentive jawline. Your torso should be at a 10- to 15-degree angle to the camera, not square on. This adds dimension. Keep your hands relaxed in your lap; don't interlock your fingers tightly, which turns your knuckles white.

How to Direct Your Session for a Polished Result

Whether you’re with a photographer or using an online service, you are the director. Speak up. First, ask for a "medium close-up." This means the bottom of the frame will cut somewhere between your sternum and your waist. You want to see a hint of your clothing choice, not just a floating head. Second, request "even, soft light on my face." This means no harsh shadows under your nose or eyes. If you see a stark shadow, ask to adjust the light or your position. Third, give yourself a direction between shots. Don't just hold a stiff smile. Look away, reset your posture, take a breath, then bring your gaze back to the lens with that neutral-confident thought. This creates natural variation. Ask to see a few shots after the first 10 minutes. Check for that dreaded forward hunch and your expression. A good photographer wants this feedback.

Your headshot isn't about hiding your age; it's about showcasing your readiness. A polished photo tells a story of attention to detail and self-awareness—qualities no resume line item can match. Start with the outfit, master the expression, and own the pose. You'll look like you belong in the room, because you do.